Words of Wisdom: No re-dos

Danielle and I

 

Hello! Happy Friday. It's Danielle's Mom here today posting on Friday...

No re-dos:

I think it is important to remember when your children are young to give them responsibilities, not chores- that sounds like work.

It could be something as simple as making their bed in the morning.  

Instead of showing them how to do it, do it with them. They can learn from doing- not just watching. Sooner or later they will want to do it on their own, and when that happens be satisfied with the outcome.  They will be so proud of their work. It might not look the same as if you had done it, but  try to never "re-do" what they have done. Let them grow up with confidence in their ability to handle responsibilities.

 

Positive reinforcement will teach your child their efforts are important and appreciated.

Here is an example of my daughter Chana's bed when she was little. Although it is not how I would have made the bed; she did it and that's all that mattered!

Now, here's my bed. Can you see the difference? I still like Chana's better.